"I know you didn't. And I never indicated it was just having sex with her in that you took advantage. Which is why I wasn't exactly following the concept. It sounds like you're trying to say Brittany is young and innocent, and you're the big bad wolf who railroaded her into everything... and I think part of you likes to feel like that with her. No, don't get bitchy at me right off. It makes you feel needed and important in her life to have this control over her, and like she constantly needs you. Or at least, it did in high school. Now high school is over, it's just feeling like a dead weight around your shoulders because it's not the same out here as it was back there. Your feelings are different. But what I'm saying is that Brittany isn't as young or innocent as you have built her up in your brain to need... that's the Brittany you need her to be to need you. If that makes sense. I promise you, though, she is back there coping just fine without you. She always does. She is simple enough, she doesn't need anything complicated to be happy. I think the biggest catalyst here is that you need to get closure on the fact you have lived so long with Brittany reliant on you. It's a two way street. You're not doing her a favour by letting her down gently with this and protecting her, you're doing yourself a favour in admitting that all there is left to your relationship with Brittany is mutual need to need someone. But you don't need anyone. You can survive perfectly without a girlfriend..." Kurt pointed out, and then took another small sip of water.
His blue eyes were still locked on her though when he was setting the bottle back down in front of him. "Just because you don't have to need anyone doesn't mean you don't want someone, though. Quinn might be that person. She doesn't need you, she never has. Maybe that's something to distinctly think about in all of this. And don't you dare throw that 'You guys already knew you were gay' shit at me, because you know that will just piss me off. Blaine and me had a whole lot of other real issues we had to overcome to make us work. So fucking what if we knew we were gay. You really need to learn that your sexuality isn't this concept that can make or break your life or any situation within it. It's just what you are. What you make your life is up to you. You know how scary it was when you were realising you were a lesbian and liked girls, and didn't really know what that meant? Don't you think maybe Quinn doesn't deserve to be alone for that? I can't help you with anything as long as you want to keep burying your head in the sand and running away from everything under the guise of your sexuality making everything so much harder for you."
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His blue eyes were still locked on her though when he was setting the bottle back down in front of him. "Just because you don't have to need anyone doesn't mean you don't want someone, though. Quinn might be that person. She doesn't need you, she never has. Maybe that's something to distinctly think about in all of this. And don't you dare throw that 'You guys already knew you were gay' shit at me, because you know that will just piss me off. Blaine and me had a whole lot of other real issues we had to overcome to make us work. So fucking what if we knew we were gay. You really need to learn that your sexuality isn't this concept that can make or break your life or any situation within it. It's just what you are. What you make your life is up to you. You know how scary it was when you were realising you were a lesbian and liked girls, and didn't really know what that meant? Don't you think maybe Quinn doesn't deserve to be alone for that? I can't help you with anything as long as you want to keep burying your head in the sand and running away from everything under the guise of your sexuality making everything so much harder for you."